STOP being “Good” and START Becoming “Balance, Whole and Complete”

I’m NOT a good woman or a good person.

I been trying so hard all these years to be good and quite frankly it is not working out for me.

I realize in order to be balance…in order to be at peace with myself I must be…


We all have a “good side” and a “bad side” and in order to be balance, whole, and complete we must embrace ALL that we are without guilt or shame.

2 Ways on How to Go from Being Good to Being Balance

1. Become (W)holistic in your thinking.

Understand that “good” and “bad” are relative experiences and they both need to exist in order for you to experience one or the other. YOU are the only one that decides what is good in bad based on your own value system and beliefs. I

2. Don’t repress other parts of you.

Nothing can be healed if you do not admit that it is apart of you in the first place. When you repress all that you have judged is “bad” within you, it will manifest itself outside of itself as a reflection in the form of people, situations, or obstacles. Recognizing that you have both sides within you takes the finger you are pointing at others and directs it back to you. It helps you start the healing process.

So don’t be good. Don’t be bad. Be Balance. Be Whole. Be Complete.

    Be Heard! Escape Groupthink and be confident enough to think for yourself

    “They who play it safe, are quick to assassinate what they don’t understand. They move in packs, ingesting more and more fear with every act of hate on one another. They feel more comfortable in groups, less guilt to swallow. They are us. This is what we have become, afraid to respect the individual.” – Erykah Badu

    I made this video almost 2 years ago. I was basically voicing my own opinion about how I felt about the title “poor” in righteous teachers. I argued that while I have no problem with the philosophies being taught, the term “poor” carries a certain negative meaning for the majority of people. Being that I’m all about prosperity conscious and abundance, I suggested that they are indeed Rich or Wealthy Righteous teachers because of the wealth and rich knowledge they contain. Read more »

      6 Ways on How NOT to Lose Yourself in Your Day to Day Life

      Photo Credit: Ashley Linh Trann

      Photo Credit: Ashley Linh Trann

      I almost forgot myself.

      In the mist of all the hustle and bustle I almost forgot who I was

      I forgot to write for the expression of it.
      I forgot to write to heal and offer my advice from experience
      Instead I got boggled down with details, keywords, and strategy

      I forgot to enjoy his touch.
      I forgot to enjoy the reason why our souls choose each other
      Instead I got boggled down with all the imperfections and minor issues that surrounds us on the physical realm. Read more »

        FREE 10 Day Count Your Blessings Challenge! (And Contest Giveaway!)

        Image by   Iqbal Osman

        Image by Iqbal Osman

        “Better to lose count while naming your blessings than to lose your blessings to counting your troubles.”~ Maltbie D. Babcock

        Starting on Monday, September 8th I will be hosting the first ever FREE 10 Day Count Your Blessings Challenge.

        Blessings are defined as “gifts and favors given by God in order to promote happiness.” When you count those blessings you are essential expressing your gratitude for all those gifts life has given you. This challenge will help you focus on what you already have in your life instead of what you don’t have thereby promoting your happiness.

        Who is this challenge for?

        • people with physical differences who desire to see the blessing in their unique self
        • people facing obstacles that need inspiration and a reminder to see the good in every situation
        • people who are looking for a fun, unique, and interactive way to practice the habit of gratitude
        • people who desire to shift their mindset and find happiness in the present moment
        • people desiring to use gratitude as a tool for manifestation

        Ready to get started? Sign up to Register below!

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